Give Me This Water
Belmont UMC—March 23, 2014
Ken Edwards, preaching
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One of the things we notice about the stories from the Gospel during these Sundays of Lent is this: in each of them we hear dialogue that seems to run parallel, not coming together until the end of the conversation. Have you ever entered into a conversation that didn’t quite make sense and then you realized that the two of you were talking about two different things?
When I was an associate pastor, another young associate pastor and I were trading stories of our work with the senior ministers. He told me a story from one communion Sunday. It was toward the end of serving communion and he came alongside the senior pastor and said in a stage whisper, “I think I’m going to run out.” By that he meant that he was concerned about running out of small cups of juice.
But the senior pastor did not understand what he meant and assumed that the young clergy was planning to run out of the church at the end of the service. The senior pastor responded, “Don’t you think you’ll look silly if you run out?”
The associate pastor said, “I don’t think it will look silly, but I’m pretty sure I’m going to run out anyway.”
The senior pastor, “Well, you can run out if want to, but I’m not going to run out.”
Associate pastor, “Yes, I’m going to run out.”
Senior pastor: ‘Please don’t do that. If you do it, you’ll have to explain this to the Staff Parish Committee.
The associate pastor, “It may be beyond our control.”
The senior pastor said, “Do you think this the work of the Holy Spirit or something?”
The associate pastor was perplexed and responded, “Sometimes you don’t make any sense to me.”
At the end of the service, the senior pastor and the young associate recessed to the narthex of the church. When they arrived in the narthex, the senior pastor said, “Well young man, I thought you were going to run out!” And then both of them realized their miscommunication and started laughing. (Senior pastors can be so obtuse.)
In the Gospel stories, beginning with the story of Nicodemus last week, and continuing through next week’s encounter with a blind man and the Pharisees, Jesus is speaking about spiritual things and others are focused on the physical. Jesus told Nicodemus, “You must be born again (a spiritual birth).” Nicodemus asked, “How can I enter my mother’s womb and be born again (a physical birth)?
In today’s rich story, Jesus has arrives at Sychar, a Samaritan city, at the ancient well of Jacob. At midday Jesus sits on the edge of the well, where he can feel the cool air rising from the water below. He is thirsty and he has no vessel with which to draw water. A woman arrives to get water for her house and Jesus asks her for some water. Immediately, Jesus is crossing barriers, barriers between men and women, historic barriers between Jews and Samaritans.
Jesus begins to talk about water, but it’s not the water that can be pulled up out of the well, it is water that can be found at the deep, cool well of God’s grace. There the woman and all of us can find living water, water that will forever quench thirsts, a spring of water that will gush up into eternal life. The woman says to Jesus, “Give me this water!” With her we plead, “Jesus, give us this water!”
Then Jesus tells her that he knows her, he knows her life, he knows about the five husbands she’s had, and he knows about the man she is now with, who is not her husband. For too long people have read this as a judgment about the woman, calling her a loose woman, forgetting that in her culture she’s had little choice in this. Her community may be judging her as well and this may be the reason she has come to draw water in the heat of the day, so as not to encounter the others. But she lives in a culture where divorce is the man’s prerogative. Fred Craddock says she is a woman who has been passed around by men. She is not a sinner but the victim of abusive men in an abusive system. (Cherry Log Sermons, p. 50)
Jesus knows about the woman. He tells her this to say to her, “I know you. I know what your life has been like. I know how deeply thirsty you are.” And in this knowing presence of Jesus the woman feels love, authentic love, love that feels a lot like water gushing up into life. “Give me this water!”
There are lots of barriers in this story and I read the story through the lens of those barriers, specifically through the lens of offering hospitality in the presence of those barriers.
There is the gender barrier. The disciples return from town they are shocked to find Jesus talking with a woman. This is out of the norm but none of the disciples is willing to say anything about it. We continue to live with a gender gap. I attended a training event for pastors of large churches from the Tennessee and Memphis Conferences two weeks ago. There was one woman there and all the rest were men. We have a long way to go.
We still have racial barriers as well. All the male pastors present at the training event were white men. We have a lot of work to do to break down these barriers.
There are cultural and ethnic barriers. Jesus and the woman are not all that different but their cultures had been divided by years of animosity. The woman said to him, “Our ancestors worshipped on this mountain, but you say that the place where people must worship is in Jerusalem.” Jesus said, “It’s not about mountains, it’s about worshipping in spirit and truth.” He cuts to the heart of the matter; it is about the God we worship, not the mountain we stand on when we worship.
We had a conversation in our ministry staff meeting this week about last Sunday’s beautiful worship service with the Golden Triangle Fellowship, our members who are from Burma, Thailand, and Laos,. It was a wonderful gathering and it felt a bit like the kingdom of God in here. But we wondered if the folks from the Golden Triangle Fellowship may have felt a bit intimated about coming into the sanctuary. They seemed a little hesitant and uncertain and we wondered how we might make them feel more welcomed and at ease. Would you wonder with us how you might be a part of that barrier breaking hospitality?
In this story I see a pattern of hospitality that breaks down barriers. The pattern is set by Jesus. The first thing Jesus does is acknowledge what he has in common with the woman. They are both thirsty and Jesus needs the woman to give him water; he cannot do this by himself. The woman needs Jesus to give her water; water that she cannot fetch from the well, water that only he can provide. They are both thirsty and they both need each other.
We spend a lot of time focusing on our differences but we need to begin with what we share in common. We are all here because we are terribly thirsty, and we desperately need each other to give us this water that comes from God. When we come to this place we need to focus less on our differences, our political, theological, cultural differences. Let us focus on our shared thirsts for God.
The second thing Jesus does is he takes the initiative to break down the barriers. Jesus could find many good reasons not to talk to this woman. He could excuse himself as being too tired, or wanting to avoid the possible conflicts the conversation with a Samaritan woman could cause. The differences between them are great. But Jesus takes the first step toward crossing the line. Jesus models barrier bursting hospitality.
Anna Carter Florence asks, “What rules is Jesus breaking to talk with us? What social conventions is he disregarding? What lines is he stepping across, in order to speak about what truly matters, and what may save our life? Human beings are, by definition, rooted in social contexts and ordered by those realities. Sometimes we let ‘the way it is’ determine what we can or are willing to see.” (Feasting on the Word, Year A, Volume 2 p. 95)
But Jesus is always stepping over the barriers of customs and conventions. At one point in my life Jesus came to me, stepped over the barriers that would naturally separate us and his initiative caused me to experience love, authentic love that felt like cool, life-giving water to my parched soul.
I hope that during these weeks of Lent we will look around and identify the barriers that separate us and follow Jesus model for us. I challenge you to sit down with someone you do not know, or possibly a person you do not think you will like. Listen and get to know that person. Look into the soul of that person and see your shared thirst for God. Let the conversation bring you together. Build a new relationship and experience something that will feel a lot like water springing up into life.
It may seem inappropriate to say it here, as deep in Lent as we can go, but the truth is, it might feel a bit like resurrection. “Lord, give us this water!”